Friday, August 12, 2011

How to Kiss a Boy

Kiss a Boy

Be bold! Kissing a boy should be fun, not frightening. Here are some tips for those trying to learn the art of kissing a boy........

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  1. 1
    Flirt. Smile a lot. Make sure he knows you are into him. Do whatever you think will let him know that you're interested and are happy around him. Hopefully, it will make him more comfortable and want to be around you more often. But please, don't be ├╝ber cheesy. Bambi eyes won't get you anywhere (they will actually creep him out).....

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    Be forward about your feelings and tell him how you feel, be yourself. He will get the point that you like him. Don't be shy because then he won't follow through. If you like him, make it clear without feeling desperate. What are you going to gain by acting excessively hard to get and making him feel like he hasn't a chance? He'll just get tired of it and move on and you'll both miss out! Guys love it when girls act themselves, but be careful not to take anything too seriously, as this is a major turn off.
  3. 3
    Break the touch barrier. The first step towards kissing is touching. Make any excuse to touch his arm, hands, or face. A lot of guys like holding hands. Hugging is encouraged! See if he uses any moves in How to Touch a Girl. If it is cold out, snuggle up to him. Hug him under his coat and talk to him face to face. This will bring your faces closer together.
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    Find the right moment. This is something you will feel when you know it's right. Often times this is after a nice evening. If you two are talking, move closer to him. Look him in the eyes, and then look at his lips. If you want, you can bite your lip a little bit (it makes you look sweet, innocent, and a little nervous. It also puts *him* in control). He should get the hint that you want to kiss.
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    Start slowly. If you want to make the first move, you can give him a peck on the cheek and slowly work your way to the lips when you feel the time is right. If he is making the first move, as previously mentioned, look at his lips. When he leans in for the kiss, follow his lead and tilt your head. Close your eyes and lean in to kiss him back. When you are doing this your hands should be up around his neck, his chest, or even holding onto his hips. And whatever you do, do NOT open your eyes! If you are around your friends (which is not recommended), he may think that you're doing it just for attention if you open your eyes and look at them. If you open your eyes but you are alone, he may think you are scared or turned off. He may also think that you are looking at someone/something behind him, and the last thing you want him to do is stop kissing you so he can turn around to shoo them away.
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    Wait for the reaction. If he is surprised, kiss him again. If he is pleased, great. Keep going. Lean back in and kiss him again, take some initiative. If he is angry, then end the situation--no one would like someone to keep on trying to kiss that person if they're uncomfortable. You should be mature enough to step back if you need to. Otherwise, move on to the next step.
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    Pull back and look down: then, look into his eyes. If he liked the kiss you'll most likely kiss again and again. Look at his lips and he will get the signal you want more!
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    If this continues for a while, maybe you should try moving onto a more passionate kiss. Then, kiss him one last time then touch his lips back!
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    When you're done, lying down is one thing to do and not talk. You could also just hug him, hold each other. You could resume talking or whatever you were doing previously.You could kiss a little more to say to him that you want to do this again some time.

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Edit Tips

  • Remember, he probably just as scared as you are and may be disappointed when he misses out on a good time for a first kiss.
  • Don't start making-out with him right after your first kiss. Take it slowly and step by step. If you go too fast, he might get the wrong idea about you.
  • Guys like kissing: there's no doubt. Sometimes, you have to make the first move to break that awkward silence. Guys are often shy, and sometimes the girl needs to break the ice. Just remember that if you're worried about him kissing you, he's freaking out about it just as much.
  • If he doesn't like you then accept his feelings, try and get over it. Occasionally, the guy will regret his decision, and may come back for more.
  • If he takes you away from the crowd or to a quiet place while at a dance or the movies, this is a sign he's making the first move. Don't freak out but relax. If he's bold enough to take you aside, then he's confident enough that you won't have to worry about anything.
  • Direct your attention somewhere else, slowly look at him, then look directly into his eyes. Very slowly, move your face toward his if he slowly backs up make it look like you saw something in his hair or if you are the brave type just move fast and kiss him. Otherwise, wait for him to lean into you and move in for the kiss.
  • If a guy is always hugging you and/or putting his arm around you then he definitely likes you and wants to kiss you (unless he's the "player" type). He is just nervous and wants you to make the first move.
  • Don't think too much! Just think about him--how great he looks, how happy you are when you are with him, how great he smells or feels. See the things such as is he caring, funny, fun to hang with.
  • Make sure the guy isn't nervous about it. That will make the tension crazy! Tension is contagious. If one of you is overly nervous, then you both will be.
  • Don't be too hesitant! If you're both leaning in for a kiss, don't pull away, lean in and relax. If you don't, it will make it look like you don't want to kiss him!
  • Don't be afraid to lead, or to change the type of kissing! Boys love it when the girl has courage.
  • The first few times that you kiss him make sure that it's not in front of a whole bunch of people--especially people that you or he knows. A lot of people are uncomfortable kissing in front of others, so enjoy it in private. Secluded areas are an excellent place to make your move!
  • Smell great by wearing some cologne or perfume but not too much.
  • Don't wear lipstick or sticky lip gloss as that will make him worry that he will get it all over his face. Any simple, flavored lip balm will do nicely, especially Lip Smackers with Strawberry as well as Watermelon flavors. Lip Smackers has a nice sheer color as it isn't sticky, you can get it at any drugstore and it is very kiss friendly!
  • Listerine pocket mist and strips are great ways to zap the bad breath fast. Drink water too.
  • You will know when he's about to kiss you when he licks his lips slightly and has a grin on his face and his eyes are pointing towards yours and he has a blank look on his face.
  • If you think you are going to kiss, try to offer the guy a mint just in case his breath smells or something. If he says no and you think his breath smells, then put two in your mouth and, while kissing, stick one in his mouth. That way, you won't have breath issues.
  • Don't smoke cigarettes, as some men don't like that, and try to avoid alcoholic drinks. Brush your teeth regularly for the best effect, and just to be safe, always carry a breath freshener (mints, etc. but don't use chewing gum: see below).
  • Don't make a mess out of the first kiss. It may be unpleasant for some people.
  • Make yourself available, but don't attack him. Let him know that you're ready, but allow him to go in for the kill.
  • If you haven't seen him in a few months, run towards him and wrap your arms/body around him, so he'll know you're excitement is ready for big things about to happen!
  • Most guys want to kiss you. If you think he wants to kiss you, but just is too shy, go ahead and move in and show him you're confident.
  • Make sure that you both are alone so that it's just the both of you and when you kiss it will be a little more romantic. Even if you haven't kissed before make it seem as if you have.
  • To set the mood, lower the lights or go into a darker place. It helps you to focus on just him and your kissing.
  • While kissing, if in the right position, touch his face, chest, or back, especially the chest by the pelvis, which is his hips on the front of his body. Guys will be turned on by that.
  • If you don't want the guy to get too "handsy", hold his hands down by your waist as it's cute and he can't grope you. Guys love getting handsy. Watch out!
  • Make him feel comfortable: compliment his cleaning up and his clothes because guys go through a lot of work to look nice.
  • Some guys find it very sexy if you kiss them on the corner on the mouth, or, when you go in, then slowly pull away with a teasing smile. Just a little smile. And maybe bite your lip just a little bit while smiling because some guys find that very sexy! They may, however, pull you into a kiss anyway.
  • Don't forget to breathe! Just breathe lightly through your nose, you don't want to be blowing on his face so breath slowly, (some guys won't even mind if you breathe lightly through your mouth, but most don't like it). You wouldn't want to pass out during your first kiss!
  • To make it interesting, you could move around when kissing, not walk around, but arch over him/roll on different sides, move your hips, etc.
  • Don't be afraid: if you're nervous, chances are he is, too.
  • Boys love kissing and touching (so long as you don't overdo it) and so there is only a small chance of rejection. Just go for it!
  • One thing that boys really like is the following: when you are already kissing him, french kiss, of course: try to suck his tongue like its a lollipop. But there is something about this--he can get really horny because it is a very provocative kiss. It depends on you! He will love it!
  • Guys love it when you feel out their muscles, especially their arms and chest/stomach, but be careful you don't want him to think you are cheesy
  • A good way to get close to a boy is to listen to music--each have one earphone/share earphones (an iPod or mobile telephone is great) because of the 'wire', you will have to be close to each other. When you do, make sure you get superclose or it's pointless. Go cheek to cheek.

Edit Warnings

  • Make sure that if all you want to give is a kiss, you make clear that is all you are going to give. Set your limits.
  • If at all possible, try not to use chewing gum to freshen your breath. Chewing gum builds up saliva in the mouth, which, if you've had something strong to eat or drink, can make your breath smell worse than it was.
  • If you want to show passion in your kissing do not eat the person off like a rottweiler,a major turnoff.
  • Accept rejection. If you're more mature about it, he may start to like you and change his mind.
  • After you kiss, don't act all happy and peppy, but do act like you enjoyed it. Guys like it when they know they did something that pleased you.
  • Don't act depressed or sullen after you kiss; it just might send the wrong message across.
  • Be careful with mints/gum. After awhile when you were eating them, they may leave an aftertaste and make your breath worse. Stay with water as it's a natural thing and you do not want a dry mouth.
  • If you are going to makeout with him, be careful. He may not even know the "basics" of it and may be surprised and confused why you put your tounge in his mouth. It depends on his age/experience. Make your own judgement!
  • Don't use a kiss to let a boy know how you feel about him. As romantic as it sounds to start a romance with a bang, if he isn't interested in one, or if there are reasons he isn't taking the initiative with you, you might end up causing some problems for yourself.
  • Don't do anything you don't want to. If he pressures you to do something you don't want to, he probably isn't the right one.
  • Make sure that you don't drink milk or take any liquid medicine right before a kiss, because it may leave a bad aftertaste in both of your mouths.
  • Make sure he is ready for it and that you aren't going too fast as this might ruin the whole relationship.
  • Make sure that you don't have any food stuck in your teeth. Guys don't want to kiss you and get food in their mouth. It is a major turnoff and it's GROSS.
  • Make sure your breath doesn't smell!
  • Don't kiss when you have a cold sore since it is viral and may be passed to him.
  • Make sure that your lips are soft: he surely wouldn't want to be kissed by lips that feel like sandpaper
  • Don't French kiss right after you eat, unless it was something like chocolate that you know tastes good because it's nasty when you get the flavor of your partner's dinner in your mouth.
  • Once done kissing, don't laugh and giggle just look at him, give a smile and look away. After kissing, stare into his eyes and then look away.

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